Yesterday I went to da church and someone gave me da book which is called <<Premarital Chastity or Premarital Sexuality>> haha made me laughed
now i'm going to share a part of this book with you guys
Q:What is Love,and what is lust?
A:To love is to give and to receive,to lust is to take and to reject.
Q: Is it difficult to live a chaste life before marriage?
A:Premarital chastity,that is, willingly abstaining from sexual relations before marriage,will cause some difficulties. A normal person,who reaches the age proper for marriage,say,twenty-three years old,and who still leads a single life without sex, will suffer the pains of sexual repression physically and spirtually.
Q:What kind of pain will the practitioners of premarital sexuality suffer?
A:Premarital sexuality will cause the man to become a slave of his bodyily lust ,and cause the woman to become a slave of her own selfish passions.Lust and selfish passions are contrary to true love:ture love gives happiness:lust and selfish passions cause pain.
Q:Will men and women suffer in the same way?
A: No quite the same.When a man keeps chaste before marriage,his body will suffer pains because his physical energy cannot find a proper outlet. If he does not have a girl friend , he will suffer all the more the pain of loneliness,and if he has a girl while still sticking to the principle of premarital chastity,he will suffer the pains of self-denial in both the body and the spirit. Women are not quite the same.When a woman lives a chaste life,her body will not burn like a man does( SUPPOSING THAT SHE DOES NOT MASTURBATE OUT OF LONELINESS)but she will suffer,much more actuely than man,the pain of spiritual loneliness.If she doesn't have a lover and she is still faithful to her feelings will be constantly hurt if her lover keeps on putting pressure on her to make love. | 
